Wow, Rochester continues the tradition in being the first for civil rights movements. This Gala Event offered a great opportunity for a night on the town, and to be part of history in the making. I want to thank the organizers for giving me the chance to document this important happening for RT and for giving Monroe county the shot in the arm that it needs to recognize the importance of marriage for everyone who values love and commitment as basic human needs, as well as essential to a community’s social and economic health.
Earlier in the day, several couples spoke their vows at church. From WXXI:
ROCHESTER, NY (2008-04-28) A dozen same sex couples renewed or said marriage vows for the first time after years of partnership this weekend at the First Unitarian Church of Rochester.
The group ceremony, though not legal marriage under New York State law, marked a court decision that’s been hailed by gay advocates trying to push the case for same-sex marriage rights in New York.
The reception for these couples, and all who wanted to participate, was held at the Riverside Convention Center later in the evening.
At the registration table we were graciously greeted and asked to sign the “Guest Book” which was actually a petition stating our support for the recognition of Same Sex Marriage in New York State. We were given shopping bags and raffle tickets to partake in the offerings of the raffles, silent auctions and vendor samples. The room for wedding vendors was packed, business people anxious to tap into this new market lined the room and the center court.

At 8: 15 PM an introduction and welcome was given by Jo Meleca-Voigt.
She thanked all the participants for signing the “guest book”. She spoke of those, locally in the government who supported the cause. She stressed that we need to stand up for those candidates that stand up for us and noted that not one state senator, representing Monroe County, supports same sex marriage.
“We need to work together and work smart and like Pat Martinez, not take ‘no’ for an answer.”
This was a great lead-in to Pat, who spoke next:
We hold these truths to be self evident that all men are created equal………….
……..and the pursuit of happiness.

(I’m thinking they look pretty happy)
Pat and Lisa led with the first wedding dance (and, no Pat, the music does NOT move you ugly!)
I had the opportunity to speak with our friends, Anne Tischer and Bess Watts, who you will recall from previous posts:

I rounded out the evening by asking our County Legislature’s Minority Leader, Harry Bronson, for a quote. (I’m paraphrasing here, cause Harry talks fast and I write slowly-can I borrow your recorder next time, Stlo?):
“Celebrating diversity, like this, is a wonderful thing to do. I sincerely hope that Maggie Brooks reconsiders her decision to appeal and holds true to the ideals of the civil rights activists from this area since the days of Susan B. Anthony and Frederick Douglass. It is disheartening that the current administration opposes same sex marriage. Our County Executive says it’s all about the taxpayers, but we are all taxpayers.”
Thanks, Harry-You’re right, of course.