That was MY congressman!
This is the first, last and only post that I will write specifically about Eric Massa’s departure from Congress.
Eric is a hero, politically. He took on a race in the GOP stronghold of NY’s 29th Congressional District which we were told couldn’t be won by a Democrat, and won. He, for the most part was on the right side of wrong. He had the intelligence and the fortitude to take on those who screamed at him at town-halls. His counter points were progressive, but respectful of other’s points of view. He was respected, even by those who disagreed once they had met and talked with him. He was a truly progressive voice where few are found today.
I believe Eric when he states that the administration wanted him out.
But now he is having a breakdown for all the world to see and from Charles Karel Bouley at HuffPo comes this insightful look into Eric Massa’s world.
Massa deconstructed on TV, including going on Glenn Beck, a move so ridiculous that the man is obviously having a breakdown and no one stopped him. Truly, when one is in a room with Glenn Beck and Beck appears to be the sane one, something is wrong.
His family must be in such an uproar, and his life is unraveling. The one thing this man has probably never dealt with, the fact that he obviously wants to explore men sexually on some level, has been ground in to grist for the media mill and he is literally falling apart under the glare of the spotlight. He is unstable, in huge denial, struggling internally to hold on the “self” he thought he had and the “self” that everyone now sees. He can’t reconcile the two and he’s come unglued in some areas. I’m no psychologist, I’ve just been gay my entire life and have seen this over and over again.
And the media, including liberals on liberal radio started screaming for him to come out, bringing more salacious details about past allegations to the foreground. Everyone began the horrible news cycle of replaying his rantings, the obviously unstable talk from a man trying not to drown. I feel nothing but pity for him. He has lived a closeted life and now the door is wide open. Not that he’s gay, he may not identify as such. There are 307 million Americans and 307 million different sexualities. But why the media is on a gay witch hunt is beyond reason at this point. Why they insist on not stopping until he is outed or outs himself even after he has resigned is just malicious. HE DOESN’T KNOW WHO HE IS YET, give him a minute to find out. And then, really, it’s none of our business unless he wants it to be.
I agree, can we leave him alone and move on? Stop providing a spotlight for Eric to walk in front of. He needs our well-wishes, not our admonishments. He was a hero when we needed one. He stood up to the powers-that-be for us.

